Reason: The Foundation of Success
A person guided by reasoning is truly admirable. Whatever they do is grounded in fairness and correctness. This stands in sharp contrast to someone who acts without reason, because unreasonable perspectives are rarely acknowledged or accepted by others.
Of course, every individual has different viewpoints. But when discussions are built on sound principles and good reasoning, they naturally lead to greater understanding. Reason brings clarity, helping us distinguish between right and wrong—truths that shape every person’s journey through life.
A Real-Life Example of Reason in Action
Take my aunt, Mony Chan, who is also my godmother. She works as a midwife at the provincial hospital in Battambang. Recently, her daughter graduated from high school. Like many parents, my aunt wanted her to study medicine and pursue a professional career.
But her daughter explained her reasoning clearly:
- “I love economics, not medicine.”
- My dream is to start my own small business after graduation.”
- “Medical studies take too many years and cost a lot of money.”
- “I can’t bear the sight of injuries and wounds.”
- “I want more personal freedom.”
After listening to these points—balancing pros and cons—my aunt accepted her daughter’s decision and supported her choice.
Here’s the lesson: The real question isn’t whether a choice is easy or hard — it’s whether you have good reasons behind it.
Why Reason Is Necessary in Life and Family
If you want to improve yourself and rise above others, you must consistently live with reason. No matter what kind of work you do, what stage of life you’re in, or the circumstances you face—even within a small family—reason is essential.
Without reason, there will be:
- Misunderstandings
- Arguments
- Lack of respect
- Disorganization
In short, without sound reasoning, living together in harmony becomes impossible.
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Another Example: A Family Decision
A few days ago, my wife invited me to take a trip to the beach in Preah Sihanouk province. At first, I refused, and she was disappointed. But then I explained my reasoning:
- Traveling long distances during the rainy season could be dangerous due to heavy rain and storms.
- The sea is rough this season, with strong waves that put us at risk.
- Safety should always come first. We can travel anytime, but our lives cannot be replaced.
After hearing these points, she agreed with my decision.
Takeaway: When your reasoning is clear and valid, family members will understand and support you.
The Link Between Reasoning and Success
In everything you do, when your reasoning is logical and acceptable, the positive results will outweigh the negative. Those who know how to reason well consistently find success, regardless of time or circumstance.
Why? Because:
- People value sound reasoning.
- Good reasoning builds trust.
- Leaders who reason clearly gain respect and influence.
In contrast, those who lack clear reasoning often face failure, disappointment, and broken relationships.
Final Thoughts
The person who truly earns respect is not the one with force or authority, but the one guided by sound reasoning.
- Reason builds trust.
- Reason prevents conflict.
- Reason brings clarity.
- Reason leads to success in life, family, and leadership.
Key Takeaway: If you want to live a better life, gain respect in your family, or become a strong leader, make reason your constant guide.
What about you?
Have you ever made a big decision—just because someone explained it so clearly? Or maybe you’ve changed your mind after hearing good reasons?
Share your story in the comments below!
Let’s learn from each other and grow together. I’d love to hear your thoughts!
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